STG TOP 5 ROMANCE TIPS (Ways To Build Happy, Lasting Relationships)

  Dating and marriage is different than it was twenty years ago. In today’s society, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another. Just thinking about that makes “commitment” seem scary. It seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people quit trying. Dating is more like a marathon, trying to date as many people as possible, instead of taking time to get to know someone at a deeper level. For married couples, divorce is not biased. Whether married for thirty years or eight months, the outcome can be the same.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing. The “spark” has gone, leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.

1.) START OVER

When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, “You look beautiful,” they might hear “Why are you wearing that shirt?” If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place. Then together, make a commitment to start over. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this. It will not automatically be easy but it is possible. Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with the flirtation. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside. It will take some time so be patient.

2.) THE POWER OF TOUCH

When a child is ill, doctors will tell you that it is proven that a simple, loving touch of a parent can quickly pull the child through a crisis. It is the same for relationships. Playing with your mate’s hair, rubbing their hand, a soft kiss on the neck, a soft pat on the leg or giving a gentle back rub will make a huge difference in how your mate responds to you. When was the last time you walked up to your mate for no reason and without saying a word, affectionately placed a kiss on their neck? This is not in a sexual way, but an affectionate way. There is a difference. The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand. Do not be surprised if you get a strange look of curiosity the  first time!

3.) SURPRISE

If you and your mate have scheduled some time for a Friday night dinner, put together a surprise instead. For example, if your mate loves professional wrestling, buy some tickets near the front or if they like concerts, buy the tickets ahead of time, getting the best seats possible. When Friday night comes around, insist on driving and head toward the scene where the event is taking place. When asked where you are going, simply answer, “I have a surprise for you. I know you love professional wrestling so I purchased two great seats for tonight’s performance,” or “I know we had planned on going to dinner, but I wanted to surprise you with something special. I purchased tickets to see one of your favorite groups in concert.” The idea of you getting the tickets for something they like and then keeping it as a special surprise will touch the heart!

4.) MAKE THE MAN FEEL GOOD

For the man in your life, here are some recommendations for making him feel

special:

􀂃Flirt with him in public places

􀂃Just once, leave the toilet lid up

􀂃 Lavish him with compliments

􀂃 Tell him how sexy he is

􀂃 Act jealous once in awhile, even if you are not

􀂃 Remind him that he is a wonderful mate, husband, father, whichever applies

􀂃 Tell him how handsome you find him

5.) MAKE THE WOMEN FEEL GOOD

 Just like men, woman love feeling good about themselves. These recommendations might help:

􀂃 Tell her how beautiful she is

􀂃 Compliment her on her many skills (be specific)

􀂃 Just once, leave the toilet seat down

􀂃 Tell her how much she means to you

􀂃 Let her know that she is your best friend

􀂃 Show affectionate to her in front of family and friends

􀂃 Let her know that you find her to be sexy

 

 

 

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